Jeremiah 35-37, 1 Timothy 2, Proverbs 6: 20-29
1 Timothy 2: 8-10 (ESV)
“I desire then that in every place the men should pray,
lifting holy hands without anger or quarreling; likewise also that women should
adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not
with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper
for women who profess godliness—with good works.”
Verses 8 through 10 from 1 Timothy 2 shows Paul explaining
to his protégé Timothy who is at the Church in Ephesus, what are the roles of
men and women in church. Paul says men need to pray and lift their hands, not
in anger or because they are quarreling. Paul says women must dress with
modesty and self-control, and not as they say in our current day “dress to
impress”. Paul tells us that only “good works” is what impresses God, and we
need to only be impressed by someone “good works” and not anything else. Some might
be offended by the comments on how women need to dress, but I think it makes
sense. In every church I’ve attended, there have always been women who treat
dressing up in church as a fashion show. I’ve also seen where dressing up for
church becomes a competitive thing for many women, especially for Easter and
Christmas. And of course, there are always women in any church who dress so they
can attract a man and sometimes they bare a little too much of their body parts
to stand out. I scolded a guy friend of mine once for staring at scantily clad
woman, and he told me as a man he couldn’t stop his hormones from getting
excited. I don’t blame these women for trying to attract a partner in church,
because if you’re a churchgoer you want to marry a churchgoer so you can
worship God together as a couple.
I think what Paul told Timothy makes sense to create an environment
in church that is conducive for worship and prayer to God. If men are arguing
in church against God in their prayers and women are dressing to compete against
one another or to attract a partner, they all become a distraction for the group
of people who have gathered to worship and pray to God. Paul wanted to make
sure that when people are gathered for church, they are focused on God and his
word and nothing else. When we are focused on God, we will hear and pay attention
to what the Holy Spirit may be trying to tell us to deepen our relationship with
God.
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