Song of Solomon 5-8, 1 Corinthians 13, Psalm 119: 169-176
1 Corinthians 13: 4-7 (ESV)
“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it
is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable
or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love
bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”
I was reading verses 4 through 7 from 1 Corinthians 13, and
I was struck by how these verses can apply any relationship a person might
have. I know many people use these verses as part of their marriage vows, but using
these verses in any relationship will help to keep that relationship strong and
long lasting. I love all the friends that I have, but sometimes they do things which
irritate me so much that I no longer look forward to seeing them. I have a church
friend whom I love very dearly, but she is very insistent on having everything exactly
to her liking. I go early to church service and try to save seats for this one
friend as well as others. I do not like sitting in the front row including the
sides of the first row. Instead, I like to sit in the middle so I can see the
pastor and the front center screen. This friend came to service 15 minutes
before it started and looked at the seat I saved for her, then proceeded to
scold me for not saving her a seat in the front row. I was not happy about her
rebuke. The whole time she was speaking to me, the only thought in my head was
if you don’t like the seat I saved for you then you should come early and get the
seat that you want instead of relying on me to save you a seat. She knows I never
save seats in the front row, so my choice of seats was not a surprise to her,
but her scolding me was a shock to me. This friend has always been kind to me,
and we’ve had some amazing Holy-Spirit filled experiences together. But I’ve had
to repeatedly ask the Holy Spirit for guidance on how to forgive her for
complaining about the seat I saved for her. I know these verses stood out to me
today because Holy Spirit is guiding me to use these verses when I think of my complaining
friend. Love isn’t just a feeling or emotion. Paul says love is a deliberate
choice to act with kindness and compassion. With the help of the Holy Spirit, I
can choose to have love for my church friend and endure all the challenges in
our relationship because I value her as a fellow member of the body of Jesus Christ.
If you enjoyed reading my thoughts about these Bible verses,
and you want to choose love in all of your relationships because of your faith
in Jesus Christ, please pray this prayer out loud:
Heavenly Father, I want to give you my Life. Forgive me of
all of my sins. Wash me in your blood. I believe in my heart You raised Jesus
from the dead. I confess with my mouth Jesus is my Lord and Savior. Right now,
I receive forgiveness by the blood of Jesus. I am saved, I am forgiven, I am
clean, in Jesus’ name, Amen.
If you prayed that prayer, welcome to the family of
Father-God! Do yourself a favor and find and join a Holy Spirit filled, full
Gospel, Bible-based church where you can hear the words of Father-God preached
and experience signs, wonders, and miracles in your life.