S. Brenda Elfgirl - I was told I am an elf in a parallel life, and I live in the Arizona desert exploring what this means. I've had this blog for a while and I write about the things that interest me. My spiritual teacher told me that my journey in life is about balancing "the perfect oneness of a sweetness heart and the effulgent soul". My inner and outer lives are like parallel lines that will one day meet, but only when there is a new way of thinking. Read on as I try to find the balance.
Sunday, October 07, 2012
When I read this NY Times article, I saw myself in it. I was raised by immigrants who barely spoke english but spoke english to their children so they could do well in school and hopefully get better jobs and a more affluent life. I spoke english but my vocabulary was sadly lacking. How do you describe things to your child in a language that is not your own?
But in 4th grade, I was tested as having the vocabulary of high school senior. And what is the secret of my 4th grade success? My parents and I watched lots of TV. The television was my babysitter and by the age of 7, I had my own room with a small TV and probably never turned the thing off until I went to bed. I graduated third in my class in high school, did really well on my SATs, and attended and graduated from a top 10 private liberal arts college.
I will admit that my speaking vocabulary is not great. I don't use what a friend of mine calls $5 words. My parents never used them and so I don't normally. And the few times I've injected $5 words by mistake into conversation with my family, they ask me to explain what I just said and look hurt that I've talked down to them.
I work in corporate America where people admire and at the same time resent their coworkers who use words that they cannot understand. In my current job, I write website copy sometimes and I've been told that you have to write like a person has a junior high education. So all those $5 words I learnt in school have no place in my job. And I can't imagine texting $5 words or using them in an email.
So do words matter? Yes. They matter for tests and schools, and if you are planning a career in academia. I think they also matter a great deal for books and reading because it's a pain to read something and to find a word that you don't understand and have to stop and look up. And yes, I do stop and look words up.
But do words matter in real life? Not exactly. You don't need a large vocabulary for work, for emailing and texting and for general conversation.
What really matters is getting your point read and heard clearly, and you don't need a large vocabulary to do that although words are tools to help you get the nuances right and be more precise.
Gas prices are high in California and on Sunday they went up even more. I picked up gas on Friday night at $4.549 at Costco for premium because I knew the prices would climb higher, and sure enough they did. How crazy is that? If gas goes to $6 a gallon, things in the Cali republic will break down. We're not used the high gas prices that is charged in other countries.
Saturday, October 06, 2012
From SFGate.com - the must-see movies post 1960. I was amazed at the number of movies on this list that I've seen. Of course now I have to see the movies on this list that I've never seen.
Does it feel like you are a child again and your parents are telling you everything is all right when you know that it's not? The MSM are telling us everything is okay and you know deep down they are so not. But the MSM are not my parents; they are supposed to be reporting on the news and they are not.
I am saving all my blog posts so I can have a record of my life. When I read my blog posts, it's like I'm reading the diary of someone else which is a strange feeling. That person who wrote those posts does not seem like m and yet I have memories of that person.
I used to be so political back in the day. Now I don't see any differences between the parties. You need so much money to get elected and corporations give money to both parties so their agenda gets in no matter who is in office. Does it really matter who we vote for since the Supreme Court decided who should run the country. The people that think they see the future expect that will happen again next month, so does my vote really matter when a court can decide who wins any election?
And honestly, has anything changed really for working people since we put the other party in office. The US still has too many troops deployed abroad. I just paid $4.50 for gas which the news reminded me this morning is the same price I paid in 2008. Food prices have not come down and for whatever reason, I cannot find Sumatran coffee at Costco anymore.
As you can tell, I am in a very melancholy mood this morning. Have been for the last two weeks, and I'm not sure why. Maybe blogging will help me tease out my indian summer of discontent. But it's not like I am unhappy because I'm not, but I do feel like we are all on the edge of something and that something is not very good.
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My uncle always said that one must always choose between the light and darkness. There is no middle ground. The darkness will always choose to extinguish the light, and the light will always try to light the darkness. So one must choose and choose wisely at every moment." From the Elf Chronicles
Sunday, November 29, 2009
But I've had my addiction experiences before and I know that if tv is an addiction it is a mental addiction and not a physical addiction like drugs or alcohol. So I was like okay, I've gotten over what I thought was an addiction to alcohol. The anxiety I experienced by not drinking was far worse than the anxiety I was feeling now about tv watching. I know that after three nights I was able to get over the anxiety that came with alcohol, it was three very painful nights, but I got through it. So I think I can get over a mental addiction to tv.
Well, that was last night. Now it's Sunday and it's football season and I couldn't help it; I turned the tv on. I've been cleaning house all day so it's not like I'm watching it, but it is on in the background.
Tomorrow is Monday night football, so I will have it on but I'm not really into any tv shows this season. V was so just boring and I'm over it with Fringe. So my plan is to have the tv off from Tuesday thru Friday and see how it goes.
I have so many great cds to listen to of seminars I've attended. Listening to them again brings back memories of what I was doing and who I was talking to during the seminar. And I feel like I'm getting my money's worth by listening to the seminar again because I'm getting different insights every time.
I'm not sure if I will give tv up forever but I don't want to feel like I am addicted to it either. The only show I regularly watched was American Idol and I have mixed feelings about watching it in January because Paula Abdul is gone, and I honestly don't I can watch Ellen Degeneres. The woman makes my skin crawl; she is just so annoying and not funny. I know people like her, but I so don't. I don't like Sarah Jessica Parker either and couldn't get into Sex and the City because of her. She is just way to skinny and icky and so not attractive.
Okay, Bob Costas is starting to annoy me. Did he just all of a sudden age? I don't remember him looking so old. Do I really care about the Baltimore Ravens versus the Pittsburgh Steelers game? NO. Thinking about this one; the tv may be turned off yet.
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
I used to actually make a vesica pisces out of string and sit in the middle of it, but now I've gotten lazier and just imagine making a vesica pisces with light so I can be sitting in my bed and not having to sit in my living room. It's much more comfortable this way.
The theory behind a vesica pisces is that it becomes a portal, basically a do-it-yourself wormhole for a person to travel astrally or in light body form to where ever actually. I think one could use it travel backwards in time or forward or off planet. Somehow, travelling to the future is not interesting. Honestly, do I really want to be bummed about how something will have turned out? I don't think so.
So last night on a whim and because I'm a little depressed right now, I decided to try and contact the Confederation of Planets in Service to the Infinite Creator. They are mentioned in the RA books. Okay, so this is like my wild and crazy imagination speaking here, but I went into a meditation and sent out a message that I wanted to contact these peeople, and I received a message back to go to Alpha Centauri. And Im like, I don't even know where this place is and then as if they heard me, I received a message back saying I did know where this place is, that I had been to the great hall where the council meets and that even I just used my vesica pisces wormhole thingy, it would take me there.
And so I'm like okay. I made my vesica pisces out of light and I think about the message that was given to me that I knew where it was and I knew where this great hall was and I went into a deep meditation.
And sure enough, I feel the wormhome activating and I feel myself moving and I'm like there and it was like I was on a set of Star Wars or something where the galactic council was meeting, only I'm there in light body form and the beings that I'm seeing aren't in solid form either but are light bodies like mine. Then they told me that I could activate the jewels in my hand that I received on my trip to Sirius (another recent adventure) to be heard and understood by everyone on the High Council.
The jewels that I received on my recent trip to Sirius, which is a strange place and physically hard to travel to even in lightbody form because everyone there is a crystal being and so much higher in frequency that we are. were given to me by the Sirius people so I could accelerate my own frequency so I could see them Sirius people and talk to them.
If you think of the Buddha statues with jewels embedded in the palm of each hand, then you have the right picture of where they put the jewels. I have to press the jewels to activate them, and once I do that my frequency speeds up enough for me to have a conversation with someone from the Sirius planet.
So I wormholed myself to the great hall on some planet in Alpha Centauri, and when I press the jewels, it's like I can see what people really look like and I can hear their thoughts and they can hear my thoughts. They even gave me permission to use sound langauge because they knew taht it was hard for me to have a conversations jusst with my thoughts. I need to verbalize, it's call be all mental for me, doesn't work.
So I'm there being presented to the confederation of the planets, and it's much easier for me to speak than to have them just listeining to my thoughts.
Anyway, it was trippy because it was hard to keep awake. I kept fading in and out because I wasn't used to their energy and it was so strange.
Next up, the planet Regulus. I just wannt to see what's up there.